Whoever said money can't buy love was broke and unrealistic. The average female will tell you "it doesn't matter what he has because I can do for myself" but all that is is a bunch of bullshit. I mean sure it sounds good but truth of the matter is every man should have something to provide off top. Love alone won't pay bills or feed you yo real shit.
Females today are on their shit and I applaud them. Nice job, own car, own crib women are making more and learning more than us fellas. With that being said though because they work so hard women don't deserve a man who can't provide just as much if not more. She would like to be picked up, she would like to keep her wallet at home, treated to a movie, mani pedi shit like that. Even if she could do it for herself having someone do it just because would mean so much more.
Me personally I'm not in the best of situations myself. Chicks tell me all the time "it's ok as long as you're working towards something it's ok" but I can't accept that shit b. I don't even wanna holla at a chick if my shit isn't right because it isn't fair to her. Why should she have to go through the stress of you getting your shit together when she already has her life in order? That shit ain't fair I don't even wanna waste her time b.
Even if a chick gets with a dude who doesn't have shit it's only a matter of time before that relationship ends. Love is important but it only gets you so far sad but painfully true. If she has a degree you should. If she has a job you should. If she has a car you should dont no chick wanna ride no dirty ass bus b.How would you feel if another nigga could provide for her better than you? Drive her places? Pay for dinner? Take trips? I couldn't handle it and until I'm able to spoil the girl I love I wanna remain single because every female who works hard deserves the best......until next time .
I feel you.
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